Is really mending a broken heart the answer to pain caused by loving someone? Is it possible to just forget how deeply you fell for someone and move on in life whether alone, or with someone? Well is it possible to even love again? If yes, possible to love that deeply? Ahmed Faraz says:
"Mohobat kay baad mohobat mumkin hai Faraz,
Mager toot kar chahna sirf ek baar hota hai"
Meaning, it is possible to love someone after someone, but loving someone more than yourself, that deep, only once!!
Happiness indeed is knowing that a broken heart can mend but truth lies in the fact that broken hearts can never be the same again..the cracks, the scars even though hidden, shall always exist..I know we must not rely on the past but it will always be a part of us and we should learn from it..And even though we escape and run from it, it shall always remind us of who we are and what we did..Isn't this Allah's biggest way of telling us that what we shall sow is what we shall reap? Isn't this His way of telling us, you are answerable for your deeds and what you do is being seen and/or written somewhere and that a day will come when you will be required to justify your actions? How silly of us not to be afraid of Him who is above all else! How silly of us to just do sins, one after the other and rely on His mercy when He tells us that you will be punished for your wrong doings! How silly of us..
I often tend to divert from what I am writing just because as I write, my heart tends to ponder around various thoughts and feelings and I keep typing whatever comes to thought..So moving away from this religious thought back to my original thought, are we capable of loving someone after someone that intensely? I believe no!! Should we still attempt to love? Yes! Love is the only one language that needs no language, no vocabulary, no minds..its just about love..and love is all about giving someone everything you have..
I read an article that said love is keeping yourself after the other. I beg to differ because for me, love is about giving that person yourself without losing yourself. If someone asks me to change myself on the name of love, change myself because they like me a certain way, do they really love me? Why can't they accept me the way I am? Don't I deserve to be who I am? We should take a moment once in a while, stop our life and reflect if we are who we are, who we want to be or we are who others want us to be..You know what the answer should be!!
What happens when someone lets our expectations down? When we give them everything, they promise us a lot too and when we need them, we can't even find their shadows. I don't have much to say on this except one small thing for anyone who believes people like me who give in everything into a relationship will last forever:
"Nothing is permanent in this wicked world, not even our sorrows-Charlie Chaplin"..
At no point in life should you take love for granted because unlike pain, love isn't a gift, its a blessing. Blessings when not taken care of, when not appreciated are taken away easily. Love can be and has been taken away from all those who take people giving it for granted. When someone is showing you love, appreciate it in the form of returning it back, for they shall not return if gone away!! Always remember, love unexpressed is love denied.. So love those who love you today or least appreciate it because tomorrow, you might crave for them, want their shoulder to cry on or for a good night's sleep, but you won't find it, AND THERE IS NOTHING YOU WILL BE ABLE TO DO ABOUT IT!!
Love is the answer to life and happiness in it!! :-)
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