6 Sept 2014

8 Golden Months - Part 3


Whenever I travel somewhere, I always write something in my journal. It is mostly about my trip and also about the recent past. It was during my flight from Entebbe to Dubai that I noted down 4 goals in my journal for my Mauritius trip; one of them was to be the badminton and table tennis champion of the university. During the sports week, I accomplished that by winning badminton and getting a silver in table tennis. Badminton has always been more than just a hobby for me because it was introduced to me by Shiraz and it is like I have a lot of love for the sport itself while I always took table tennis as a hobby but during one of the community tournaments I took part in, a referee who was also Uganda number 1 at some point in time told me ‘you know more table tennis than you know badminton and you know you can be the best amongst all these guys.’ The amount of motivation his words brought me that day have stayed forever and I went ahead to become number 3 in the universiade in Mauritius and number 2 in the all communities open in Kampala, Uganda. I have concentrated on my game ever since that day and I have developed a love for it especially for my backhand. Today, I have two backhand shots named ‘trademark’ and ‘sexy’. I know the name sexy sounds very awkward or funny but well, that is the name and it is a very special shot for me. One of the most happy-go dudes I have ever met, Kiki always laughed when I hit the shot and said ‘sexy’.

I have been privileged to have some outstanding teachers and professors during my educational journey. In primary school, I had this amazing English teacher; Mr. Gregory who used to summarize Shakespeare like no big deal and to be honest, I haven’t met someone more talented as a language teacher than him. In high school, I had two favorite teachers; one who used to teach us geography and the other; math and physics. Mrs. Kibirige’s classes were also marvelous because she used to make us laugh a lot and I looked forward to them. Mr. Julius was a knowledgeable teacher who made physics look so simple and was humorous as well. The stories and the jokes all made those physics and math’s lessons worth it. During my diploma’s, I studied under two great gentlemen. Mr. Joseph taught me business environment and also made me fall in love with economics for the way he taught it which says it all, doesn’t it? Mr. Francis taught me quantitative methods and made me understand a concept that I couldn’t throughout high school. And then my university final year, I got guidance from Mr. Ashley. I could not have the honor of having him as a professor but I always went to him for guidance and assistance. A true professor is not one who has all these degrees and honors but one who is loved and respected by students. Mr. Ashley has both the degrees and honors and the respect which says everything. The one thing I have learnt from him is that ‘never stop in life. Keep learning and keep educating yourself. Have those plans in your mind and keep asking yourself “what after this?”.’

When you have a celebrity in your class, a student council member, the AIESEC university president and a mix of characters and personalities, you are bound to have an interesting time. The one thing I am really happy about it the way I was welcomed and accepted by everyone. It isn’t easy to accept someone who directly comes in third year when you have been working your ass off for the past 2 years, but I was humbled again by this. I and Nur became intellectual buddies, Sanjeet and I were musical buddies, I found a great books-lover in the form of Anjali, Doreen and I had this little Swahili connection as we are neighbors in terms of home countries, IC as always was the cheerful and smiling buddy and of course he is a music star (so I felt wow, I am friends with a celeb) and someone who called me ‘bhai’, Tania. I had a very interesting batch of classmates with whom there was everything from laughter to seriousness, tension to light moments to criticism of the system; practically everything. The two things that I can think of that will always make me laugh is how Nur used to mimic someone’s way of saying my name and Mr. Ramdin’s lessons and Sanjeet’s singing in them; haha amazing moments!!

I love exams to bits. That is one thing that a lot of people get surprised at but the reality is, I love exams. I do not feel stressed or tensed about them. Several times in the past, I have had people ask me ‘don’t you have an exam tomorrow?’ This is because of the way I am even a day before the exam. I was playing badminton during my diploma exams and a day before my coursework submission on campus, I was playing cricket. I remember Doreen complaining to me about that. Others on campus too were like ‘he is so relaxed’. For my strategic exam, there was confusion and a mess up and it frightened all of us. The only reason I did not panic a lot was because of my perception of exams. I think life has tested me so much so far that I have gotten used to it. This reminds me of two lines written by one of my favorite poets, Ahmed Faraz. He wrote: Ab toh dard sehne ki itni aadat si hogayi hai Faraz, kay jab dard nahin milta toh dard hota hai! Meaning: ‘I have gotten so used to enduring pain in life Faraz, that if I do not get pain now, I feel hurt’.


My leadership thesis was made of 36,120 words. WOW! It included research on authentic leadership, feedback questionnaires from people who know me, two life stories; both written from different perspectives, my mother’s account of me as a person and personality test results. I was so excited about this since the start of the year because I love writing and I wanted to write about my life. One of my long lost desires is to write a novel on my life but I can’t manage to get a start for it. And even when I started, I can’t continue it. Anyways, the thesis showed me a lot especially what people thought of me. That was the most interesting part about it. I really realized a number of things. I am so glad about that! I even names my thesis the title I long thought for my book "The best weapon is the spoken word"

So I just have one more article to write in this series. The next article will be about my travel back home, my explorations, my friends on campus, the newspaper article and then the travelling back for my graduation to Mauritius again.
One more to go!!

Peace!
Cheers!
Champ!

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